being gentle is good, however if say you are trying to go up a hill or something while it's cold, high load, low rpm is worse for the motor than low load high rpm, (i'm not talking about redline, just higher than 1.5, 2k rpm) as higher rpm and low load means better oil pressure while low rpm high load can cause greater stress on the components with low oil pressure which could cause metal on metal contact causing more wear.
I'd say if you know you will encounter a higher load situation early on the drive , this might be case for a little longer warm up time before starting..
However at temps above 70 degrees the oil isn't that thick to begin with so not much to worry about.