Did replacing the oil pump resolve the issue?
I was on a road trip December 20th and all of a sudden, the car began shifting into neutral by itself. I would shift back to drive, and when I would accelerate, the car would rev to about 5,000 rpm and then violently shift into next gear, jerking the car badly. I exited the highway and came to a stoplight. Once I stopped, I got the same start/stop warning as you, even though I didn't have it engaged, and the car shutoff. I restarted the car and got an oil warning light, check engine light, and a key not recognized light. I managed to idle off the road and let the car cool down for about 20 minutes. I restarted the car and the warning lights were gone, so I attempted to drive the car and got the overboost/violent shift again into 2nd gear, so I turned it off and called for a tow to the nearest KIA dealership. After having it a week, they said it needs a new transmission (at 8,000 miles?!?!). It's been almost 3 weeks now with no car and now I'm wondering if it was the transmission or oil pump as your dealership is claiming. I've reached out to KIA North America and they're supposed to call me this week about it.